Do you ever feel like time has slipped away, and your dreams are now too far gone?
Maybe you’ve whispered that question to yourself in the quiet moments – between school runs, night shifts, or while folding laundry with a sigh that carries more than just exhaustion. I know that feeling intimately. At 36, I’m a mum of four, a wife, and a woman who packed up her life in Nigeria to start over in the UK. I went back to school, not because it was easy, but because something inside me refused to let go of the dreams I once held close.
There are days when the weight of responsibility feels relentless – when motherhood, marriage, and the pursuit of a new career collide in a whirlwind of demands. But even in the chaos, I’ve learned something powerful: dreams don’t come with expiration dates. They may get buried under routines and survival mode, but they never truly disappear. They wait – quietly, patiently – for us to remember them.
This blog isn’t just about me. It’s about you. It’s about every woman who’s ever felt like she missed her moment. It’s about the late bloomers, the second-chancers, and the brave souls who dare to begin again. Because starting over isn’t a sign of failure – it’s a declaration of courage.
So if you’ve ever felt too old, too tired, or too far behind to chase what sets your soul on fire, I invite you to read on. You’re not late. You’re right on time.
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The Myth of "Too Late"
Society loves a timeline.
Graduate by 21. Land your dream job by 25. Get married by 28. Buy a house by 30. Have two kids and a dog by 32. And if you miss any of these milestones? Well, good luck catching up – because apparently, life is a race and the clock is always ticking.
But let’s be honest: real life doesn’t follow a spreadsheet. It’s messy, unpredictable, and full of detours. And sometimes, those detours are where the magic happens.
I graduated from secondary school at 16, bright-eyed and hopeful. But life had other plans. I waited three years before I could secure admission into the University. And even after studying one of the most sought-after courses (Pharmacy), I didn’t land a high-paying job. Instead, I found myself navigating twists and turns, eventually relocating to a new country, going back to school, and starting all over again at 36, with four kids, a husband, and a heart full of courage.
Some days I feel like I’m juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle on a tightrope. Other days, I feel like a warrior queen in pajamas, conquering the world one school run at a time. But through it all, I’ve learned this: there’s no such thing as “too late.”
Need proof? Let’s talk about some legendary late bloomers:
– Colonel Sanders founded KFC at 62. Before that, he was rejected more times than a Nigerian visa applicant with incomplete documents.
– Vera Wang didn’t design her first wedding dress until she was 40. Now she’s synonymous with bridal couture.
– Morgan Freeman became a household name in his 50s. Before that, he was just that guy with the voice of God waiting for his moment.
These people didn’t follow society’s timeline. They created their own, and so can you.
So if you’re feeling behind, remember: you’re not late. You’re just on a different schedule. And sometimes, the best stories take a little longer to unfold. After all, jollof rice tastes better when it simmers, not when it’s rushed like instant noodles.
Why Starting Late Can Be a Superpower
We live in a world that glorifies early success – child prodigies, teenage CEOs, twenty-something millionaires. But what if your journey didn’t start with fireworks at 21? What if your dreams took the scenic route, with pit stops for diapers, detours through depression, and a few unexpected U-turns?
Let me tell you something I’ve come to believe with every fibre of my being: starting late isn’t a weakness – it’s a superpower.
🌸 Every Season Has Its Blessings
There’s a quiet strength in blooming later. At 36, I’m not the same woman I was at 26. Life has seasoned me. The waiting, the working, the wondering – they’ve all shaped me. I’ve lived through the ache of delayed dreams and the joy of rediscovered purpose. And now, I carry a deeper understanding of what truly matters: family, growth, impact, and legacy.
🎒 You Already Carry Valuable Experience
When I look back, I see how life prepared me in ways I didn’t even realize.
– Parenting taught me management, multitasking, emotional intelligence, and the art of negotiation (especially with toddlers).
– Running a business in Nigeria sharpened my resilience, budgeting skills, customer service, and creativity.
– Working night shifts taught me discipline, empathy, and how to function on minimal sleep with maximum grace.
– Facing depression during my first year in the UK forced me to fight for my mental health, build communication skills, and learn how to connect again – even when I felt invisible.
These aren’t just survival skills. They’re dream-building tools. They’re the quiet superpowers that make you unstoppable when you finally decide to begin.
🐾 Small Steps Still Count
We often think we need to launch big – start a company, publish a book, go viral. But the truth is, small steps are sacred. They’re the bricks that build the dream.
For me, it started with:
– Restructuring my blog to reflect my voice and values.
– Writing heartfelt posts that blend humour, vulnerability, and truth.
– Creating custom visuals and memes to complement my storytelling.
– Exploring faceless YouTube channels and learning new digital tools like Canva, Scratch, and Kahoot.
– Reaching out, connecting, and sharing – even when I felt unsure.
Each step felt small. But together, they became momentum. And momentum is magic.
💪 You’re Stronger Than You Think
Starting late means you’ve lived. You’ve failed, cried, loved, lost, and learned. You’ve built character in the trenches. And now, when you rise, you rise with depth. With wisdom. With a story that others need to hear.
So if you’re standing at the edge of your dream, wondering if it’s too late – know this: you’re not behind. You’re just beginning, with a full backpack of experience and a heart ready to soar.
You are not too old, and it is not too late. You are right on time for the dream that was always yours.
Chinonyelum Lynda
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